My ex-partner is pressuring me into signing a parenting plan that he has written up. I do not agree with a lot of the terms. What can I do?
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Answer by Pearl Beaumont, Penrith 2570 NSW
- A valid agreement can only be entered into freely not under pressure. He cannot force you to sign anything you do not agree to.
- Making parenting arrangements are big decisions and coming to an agreement will require some give and take. If you are having trouble negotiating or you are feeling pressured then you should reach out for help.
- You may like to start with the assistance of a counsellor to help you clarify how you feel about the issues and what is really important to you or a mediator to help you communicate with your ex-partner in a neutral and safe environment.
- You may also like to get some legal advice so you fully understand your rights and responsibilities. In some cases your lawyer can assist you with the negotiation process.